BMS Pillow Talk Sassy – Sex Toy Review

So, I just finished reviewing the Pillow Talk Flirty, the mini vibe in the BMS Factory Pillow Talk line up, but I already find myself in possession of a second toy in the collection – the BMS Factory Pillow Talk Sassy. (Now I just need to get my hands on the Cheeky and I’ll have the whole Pillow Talk set! GOTTA CATCH THEM ALL!)

Much of what I had to say about the Flirty will hold true for the Sassy, so if you have already read my Flirty review cover to cover… much of this information isn’t going to be new to you… but I hope you’ll stick around, we can have a good time with bad jokes and snacks (you did bring the snacks right?). The aesthetics of this toy are equally as cute, the Swarovski Crystal is a luxurious touch, the silicone body is smooth to the touch, the color has a sort of sweet and innocent feel to it (it is also available in pink if this soft teal isn’t your thing), and it is just all around a nice vibrator.

The Pillow Talk Sassy is an insertable vibrator with a generously curved neck that is perfect for g-spotting (at least it’s been doing wonders for me and mine), it features a flexible shaft, a 1.5 inch wide bulbous head and 5 inches worth of insertable length. Not exactly innovative, pretty basic, but man is it effective.

So I really liked the Pillow Talk Flirty, but I think I might almost love the Pillow Talk Sassy. It’s not quite the scream it from the mountain top sort of love… but it is at least the kind of love where I would text my best friend about it (if I had a best friend… which I don’t, because I’m a hermit who lives in front of a computer screen) so we could have a momentary squee about it together… okay, so maybe it’s a crush at best. The bulbous head really hits my g-spot in all the right ways, I really feel like I am really able to aim the Sassy and direct it’s head right against my g-spot.

The vibrations provided by the Sassy are of a deep and rumbly quality, but intensity-wise I think it is pretty mild to moderate. It isn’t the most powerful vibrator I’ve used and more than once I found myself hitting it’s top end setting and wishing that I could just bump it up a few steps more. But, it still was satisfying and not at all a let down. I especially enjoyed using this in tandem with another toy. I really liked inserting the Sassy, letting it knead against my g-spot while I held a second (more powerful) vibe against my clit (I alternated between my We-Vibe Tango and the FemmeFunn Ultra Bullet) and this was pure bliss! Another way I was using the Pillow Talk Sassy was to smash the bulbous g-spotting head down against my clit, that also worked out quite well… so feel free to think of the Sassy as an indoor/outdoor sort of toy (but keep it out of the backdoor, as there is no flared base and thus not exactly anal safe)!

Operating the Pillow Talk Sassy, while not intuitive, is pretty easy once you know what’s going on. To turn the vibrator on, just tap the Swarovski Crystal button at the base of the toy and it will spring into action. To turn it off again, just rinse and repeat. Where things get a little… different…. is when you wish to rotate through Sassy’s various intensity modes. Rather than pressing the button to cycle through the settings (as you would do with most standard button set ups…) you instead just push and hold the button and the toy will begin to slide through its modes. It has taken me some time to get used to this… actually, I’m still not used to it… more than once I have turned the toy off mid-session while trying to increase the intensity. It’s frustrating… but not really a deal breaker… I just need to work on being smarter than the vibrator. If you find that you have raised Sassy’s intensity too high and you want to back down a step or two… there is no way to do that… you’ll have to turn the toy off and begin again. I’m not a big fan of this, I like the abilaity to jump up and down quickly and if I’m close to orgasm but I don’t want to come yet and want to linger just at the edge a bit longer, I like to be able to quickly back the speed down without interrupting it. If I pull the vibrations away completely, I risk losing my orgasm entirely and have to start over.

Another button function to be aware of is the travel lock. With the Flirty, I was just furiously clicking the button, trying to figure out how the heck the thing worked (this was before I understood the Pillow Talks press-and-hold button function thing) and I accidentally activated it’s travel lock… well… I didn’t know the toy had a travel lock, so I thought I broke the mini vibe and was seriously bummed. I figured maybe I would try to recharge it and see if that fixed the problem, and it was while I was pulling the charging cable from the box that I read about it’s travel lock functionality. After a quick face-palm, I de-activated the travel lock and I was good to go. SO, to make a long story short… the Pillow Talk Flirty comes with a hand-dandy travel lock that makes traveling with your new vibrator a breeze… no more vibrating suitcases (haha… been there… done that… talked to the TSA about sex toys) this feature is also handy for just storing your toy, there is nothing creepier than having a vibrator randomly turn on in your drawer in the middle of the night… because you will think your room is haunted (again… been there… done that… was convinced I had a poltergeist… but it was just the Fun Factory Joupie…). So, to turn the travel lock on, just rapidly click the crystal button at the base of the toy three times. You’ll feel the toy vibrate twice, this is how you know you’ve turned the travel lock on. When you are ready to turn the travel lock back off again, just repeat this process… three quick clicks and you are ready to rock and roll.

So, do I like the BMS Factory Pillow Talk Sassy? You know, I think I do… I really do. I mean, it’s a quality toy, the price isn’t terrible ($43.00 at the time of this review), and it works pretty well! I have been able to masturbate to orgasms successfully a number of times with this toy (even if it isn’t the great powerhouse of vibrations that I wish it was) and enjoyed having it used on me by my partner.

If you would like to buy a BMS Factory Pillow Talk Sassy for yourself (or a friend, loved one, or frenemy) you can pick one up at Peepshow Toys (seriously, they are awesome and you should check them out)! Plus, use the code KITTEN at check out to snag yourself a sweet 10% discount!

The BMS Factory Pillow Talk Sassy was provided to me free of charge by Peepshow Toys in exchange for my honest review.